The keys to male stimulation
Getting a man to 100 is not usually complicated, but sometimes it can be. If you notice that the man you’re with is having difficulty activating his libido, then this article will be really helpful. In the following lines, we will show you the main keys through which male stimulation will be easier. It’s important to remember that men are not always in optimal conditions to enjoy sex. But with these keys, everything will be easier.
Phases of a man’s sexual response
To understand it better, we will show you the different phases a man goes through when being stimulated.
- Excitement phase: This is the period in which the man begins to experience stimulation. This stimulation is both physical and psychological, meaning it is the moment when his libido begins to rise. This confirms that testosterone also helps increase a man’s sexual desire. Normally, this is the time when the genitals begin to grow in size due to the excitement that is taking place. The growth of the penis is the preparation for sexual activity.
- Plateau phase: This follows the excitement phase, but it is usually more intense. At this point, the testicles grow and are closer to the body.
- Orgasm phase: This is when spasms and contractions occur. The goal is ejaculation, and this is the point of no return. It is when the orgasm is achieved.
- Refractory period: This is the time when the body returns to its normal state after the previously mentioned phases.
The brain is the largest sexual organ
Many experts have no doubt in saying that the largest sexual organ in the body is the brain. It is responsible for carrying out the different phases mentioned earlier. Thanks to the brain, hormonal secretion can be regulated, helping to create the right emotions.
When the brain begins to notice excitement, it starts sending orders to the rest of the body to prepare. For example, it is responsible for triggering the release of phenylethylamine. This shows that a man’s excitement does not originate from the penis but from the images and thoughts that occur in the brain.
Key erogenous points
The genitals have been shown to be a significantly erogenous zone. This means that, when arousing a man, penis stimulation is usually more than enough. However, it’s not enough to stimulate that area alone; it’s also important to consider other key erogenous points.
- Perineum: this is the area located below the penis, specifically between the anus and the testicles. Because it lies more or less close to the prostate gland, it serves as a powerful stimulant.
- Frenulum: this is an area on the penis. More precisely, it’s the small piece of skin that connects the glans to the shaft. It’s highly stimulating for a man, which is why it’s an erogenous zone.
- Stimulating this area can produce very high levels of pleasure. It can be stimulated not only by hand but also with the tongue.
- Scrotum: one of the most forgotten parts of the body, yet also among the key erogenous points. You should know that the scrotum is a very important erogenous zone because it contains the testicles, which are extremely sensitive. It’s a highly sensitive area. You can stimulate the scrotum with your fingers, but using the mouth (without biting) or an erotic accessory can also deliver a great deal of pleasure.
- Glans: the head of the penis is also very sensitive, making it a prime erogenous zone for giving pleasure to an aroused man.
- G-spot: for many men this is a forbidden area, but it can be intensely pleasurable. It lies about 5 cm deep from the entrance to the anus. If properly stimulated and the man is relaxed, it can provide a great deal of pleasure.
Erogenous points not linked to the genitals
To achieve greater arousal, don’t forget the non‐genital areas. These zones can also bring pleasure and make the overall experience much more enjoyable. Some of these points are:
- Ears: for many men, the earlobes are highly exciting. There are many nerve endings in the cartilage area, making it a good region for stimulation.
- Neck: a well‐known area that can boost libido. It can be stimulated in various ways, but the most common is through kissing, caressing, or gentle nibbling. Done correctly, arousal is guaranteed.
- Chest: not just a woman’s domain—the chest is also an erogenous zone for men. Light caresses on the nipples can greatly increase arousal. Adding stimulation of other areas like the neck will make the experience even more enjoyable.
- Hair: the scalp has a large number of nerve endings. A good head massage, followed by extending that massage to other areas, is a great idea. Many men relax with a good scalp massage, making it an excellent starting point for arousal.
- Hands and feet: not all men enjoy stimulation of these parts, but those who do, enjoy it very much. Ask your partner if they like it—you’ll achieve excellent results that way.