Keys to painless anal penetration
Sex experts recommend having anal sex to enjoy new experiences. If you haven’t tried it yet due to fear of pain, we will give you a series of tips to have a painless anal penetration for both parties. It may seem complicated at first, but I assure you that once you put the following tips into practice, you’ll enjoy the pleasure of this type of penetration.
1- Create a good environment
Anal sex should always be done when both parties are prepared for this type of penetration. Never force someone to have anal sex if they don’t want to or feel fully prepared. It’s important to note that the person being penetrated must be completely relaxed, or the penetration will be impossible.
2- Use of lubricant
When performing penetration, relaxation alone is often not enough, so the help of a good lubricant is needed to ensure the penetration is successful. It’s important to remember that the anus does not produce its own lubrication, unlike the vagina.
To avoid pain, the lubricant should not only be applied to the entrance of the anus but also to the penis to allow for easier entry and better sliding. This way, the penetration can be done painlessly.
3- Use of toys
If it’s the first time someone is going to experience anal penetration, the best thing to do is to first practice with sex toys. There are various toys to choose from. For example, you can use anal Kegel balls or a plug. You should always insert them slowly to get used to it. Of course, they should always be introduced with lubricant for easier insertion.
While the anus is getting accustomed, to avoid losing excitement, you can continue with vaginal penetration or some foreplay to increase arousal. Keep in mind that not everyone can enjoy anal sex right away. Some people need time to get used to it and take the first step. If the small plug doesn’t fit, then you need more time.
4- Safety
Don’t make the mistake of trying to insert objects into your anus to try to make space. Always use products that guarantee your safety, like a quality plug. Don’t imitate others, as it could lead to accidents that risk your health. It’s important to remember that an anal plug always comes with a wide base to prevent the anus from absorbing it and drawing it inside. This not only prevents scares, but I can assure you it will also help you remove it more easily.
5- Never rush
Rushing is not good for sex, especially if it’s your first time having anal sex. It should be done slowly and without stress, or the results will not be as expected.
If you choose to penetrate after removing the plug to take advantage of the area’s dilation, don’t rush the penetration. Always do it gradually so the area can adjust. And of course, if you notice that things start to dry up, you’ll need to add more lubrication to ensure everything goes smoothly. Don’t be afraid to use as much lubricant as necessary. This will help prevent pain and, most importantly, make the experience much more pleasurable for both parties.
6- Prevention
Another important step to avoid infections, even if you’re having sex with your regular partner, is to always use a condom. The purpose of using a condom during anal penetration is to minimize the risk of infection. Keep in mind that you’re penetrating a contaminated area. No matter how clean it is, there could still be some kind of infection. For this reason, it’s recommended to perform penetration with protection to prevent any potential infection from being passed on. It’s also advisable to use a lubricated condom and add a little extra lubrication to avoid friction that could spoil the experience.
7- Hygiene
Hygiene is crucial when enjoying anal sex. Both partners need to practice hygiene to reduce risks and ensure that sex doesn’t become unpleasant or unsanitary.
8- Cleaning
It’s really important to properly clean any toy used for penetration so that it’s in perfect condition for the next time. The sex toy should be washed with water and mild soap to ensure a good experience. There are also disinfecting products specially made for sex toys available on the market, which can be a good solution. Once cleaned, store the toy in a clean bag to prevent contamination.
9- Vaginal penetration
Finally, I want to make it clear that it’s not recommended to perform vaginal penetration after anal penetration. To clarify, as we’ve discussed, anal sex can be accompanied by infections. For this reason, if you switch from anal to vaginal penetration without cleaning, you’re contaminating your partner and putting their health at risk. If you’re highly aroused and want to make the switch, the first thing you should do is remove the condom, clean the penis, and put on a new condom before continuing with vaginal penetration. The same goes for oral sex. Always reduce the risks. For this reason, when starting with anal sex, it’s recommended to finish with anal sex to avoid mistakes that could jeopardize your partner’s health.
By following these steps, you’ll not only have safe anal sex, but also pain-free sex.