Black kiss: what it is and the keys to doing it

Two of the most sensitive areas of the body are the mouth and the anus. And those two areas are the ones that come into play when we opt for the well-known “rimming” (anilingus). It is something that can offer a lot of pleasure, but it is not recommended for those who have prejudices.

What is rimming?

Also known by the name of anilingus, it is the act of stimulating the anal area of the person being stimulated with the mouth. It is a technique that not everyone likes, so before diving in, it is best to make sure that your partner wants to enjoy this technique.

Normally, we are used to using the mouth and tongue to stimulate the vagina or the penis, but today we are focusing on stimulating the anus. After all, that is the main objective of rimming.

Many people go for rimming out of curiosity, others to try something new, and some simply because they feel aroused and enjoy it. What is clear is that rimming creates psychological excitement for many people, which is why it is a very common practice among couples. However, it is also true that many couples tend to hide it due to fear of judgment.

So, if you’re looking to explore new sensations, you should know that rimming can be a good option to achieve that.

What should be considered when performing rimming?

For everything to go perfectly, it’s important to consider the following tips:

Hygiene: Without a doubt, hygiene is crucial to ensuring the experience is positive for both parties. When having sexual relations, hygiene is very important, but even more so with rimming. Any residue or odor should be eliminated to avoid truly unpleasant experiences. Poor hygiene can ruin the exciting moment. Of course, always keep in mind the area you’re in, which makes hygiene even more important.

Diet: If you’re clear that you’re going to enjoy a rimming session, it is important to avoid certain foods. Carbonated drinks or heavy meals are usually not recommended. This helps avoid the risk of gas. If your partner enjoys flatulence, however, you might consider including them in your diet.

Protection: Rimming can come with the transmission of diseases. To reduce the risk, always use protection. The best protection in this case is latex barriers. There are simple ones or flavored ones; you should choose the one that interests you most.

Communication: Communication is essential to make the experience right. For both parties to enjoy, it’s important to communicate and ensure there is consent for this practice. Remember, if you’re not okay with it, speak up and opt for another sexual fantasy.

Steps to perform a black kiss

Now we will show you the steps to take in order to give your partner a good black kiss. Remember, the essential tools for this will be your mouth and tongue. With these tools, you will be able to kiss and lick. Of course, you should never make the mistake of biting, as it will end the excitement in an instant. Think of it as a delicate area, and for that reason, the work should also be delicate. Another tool could be your fingers, but always be careful not to cause scratches, as they can be quite painful.

When you begin performing the black kiss, you need to start slowly and build up. The progression should be gradual to allow the body to adjust and, most importantly, the excitement to grow. Many people tend to use the technique of performing some oral sex on the penis or vagina before moving on to the anal area. Of course, all of this should be done calmly to maintain excitement at all times. What is not recommended is going from the anus to the genitals, as that could inadvertently transfer bacteria and compromise the other person’s health.

Once you focus on the anal area, i.e., the “black” zone, it will be time to start the stimulation. To avoid being monotonous, the best approach is to combine movements and intensities. Licking will be the main act, but kissing and caressing should not lose importance in the black kiss.

Another option could be to circle the anus and, when the person is ready, focus on the darker area. The key is to mix different movements for good stimulation and to satisfy the person receiving the black kiss.

If the person receiving the kiss becomes excited and wants to go further, it might be a good idea to proceed with penetration. It should be slow to avoid internal damage and pain. Penetration can be performed with a finger, but sex toys can also be used. What’s certain is that if you opt for penetration, you should always use a good anal lubricant. This will make the penetration easier and eliminate pain. Remember, some lubricants even have flavors, which makes the whole experience a little easier.

Positions for the black kiss

Currently, there are three main positions to choose from when performing a black kiss.

On all fours: This is one of the most common positions because it allows both parties to be comfortable. Additionally, it’s a natural position, which tends to create a lot of excitement. Lying on your back: The person should lie down and lift their legs so the other person can easily access the anal area. This position allows access to both the anus and the genitals. Facesitting: This position is ideal for the more adventurous. In this case, the person should sit facing the other person’s face, and at that moment, begin the stimulation, leaving a small gap to allow for movement.