Can planning sex be exciting?
When we talk about sex, we often tend to think that spontaneous sex is the one that will provide the most pleasure and the best experiences. But as our escorts tell us, many times planned sexual encounters can be better. That said, a good plan is essential to achieve a good outcome.
What is the perfect sex?
One interesting thing is that everyone has an idea in mind of what perfect sex would be like, but not everyone knows how to practice it to enjoy that experience. And when they try it, for one reason or another, it doesn’t give them the pleasure they had in mind. This is because, many times, we have preconceived ideas in our heads, linked to the world of movies and porn. And when we put those ideas into practice, we realize that they are not as exciting as we thought.
When we talk about exciting scenes on TV or in movies, two patterns usually appear. Rapid falling in love with kisses and bedroom scenes. This has been ingrained in our subconscious, making us all desire it. But the real excitement doesn’t work that way, it lies in other experiences.
Through our escorts, we’ve observed that sometimes spontaneous sex can be pleasurable, but in the vast majority of cases, planned sex tends to be more exciting.
With this, we want to say that in order to enjoy exciting experiences, we need to forget what has been embedded in our subconscious through movies and TV shows and be in the real world. We’ll see that spontaneity can be interesting when it really arises, but planning can make it equally interesting.
What about spontaneous sex?
One of the problems with spontaneous sex is that it doesn’t always bring the pleasure that one seeks in the first place. This is because many times we let ourselves be carried away by instinct rather than by our real desires.
An escort might have spontaneous sex but not enjoy it. On the other hand, with a slow, planned relationship, emotions may start to arise. When those emotions appear, they can create experiences that can’t be described with words. For this reason, many studies have shown that relationships between friends who have been friends for a long time tend to be more pleasurable than spontaneous ones. This is because everything has been simmered slowly, and the passion is much higher.
Remember, in the vast majority of cases, spontaneous relationships often end in failure because the intensity of the moment fades quickly. If that passion is not worked on, the most common outcome is that both parties part ways and live their separate lives.
Can you enjoy passion after years of friendship?
When two people have been friends for many years and haven’t kissed each other on the lips, it’s often said that they are in the “friendzone,” and it’s hard to get out of that situation. But the reality is very different. It has been proven that, with time, a spark can emerge. This spark of love arises in one person who changes their behavior towards the other. And it is that change in behavior that may make the other person start to feel something as well.
When two friends fall in love, which happens more often than we think, the planning of sex tends to be very exciting. It’s something planned to make it go well, and in the vast majority of cases, it yields very good results. We won’t lie to you, success is not always guaranteed, but it is for the most part.
In love, things need to be worked on to make everything work out well. An example of this can be seen with escorts. They are professionals with the key tools to ensure that their clients always leave satisfied. They don’t achieve this just because they have great bodies, but because they plan things, and that planning generates emotions that translate into success.
When can you have planned relationships?
You need to remove from your mind the notion that only couples who have been together for a long time can have planned sexual encounters. The reality is very different. We’ve previously mentioned that they can arise from friendships, but also from new relationships.
Just like with escorts and their clients, planned relationships can happen even when we’re just starting to get to know someone. When we’re getting to know someone gradually, we see how we are really planning everything, even without realizing it. Planning sometimes happens, but we are unaware of the process.
For example, when we meet with someone we want to make fall in love with us, it’s common to use an attractive routine to capture their attention. We can plan a dinner, go out to a party, or go to the countryside… All of these are plans that show we are executing a plan, even though many times, we don’t realize it. What’s important to note is that this planning is done because we care about that person. When the planning yields good results, it’s common for the emotion and pleasure to be ensured.
Similarly, our escorts tell us that planning helps, but not everything happens exactly as planned. It’s necessary to give planning some freedom so that things can happen and be enjoyed. There’s no need to be rigid; we can take a few twists and turns to make the emotion even stronger. With this, we realize that the idea that planned sex is worse is a myth.
Relationships should always be worked on, and we should let them flow. Sometimes love emerges on the first day, and sometimes it takes years. But the important thing is to allow everything to evolve in order to make the most of it and enjoy it with your partner. Remember, in many cases, the longest-lasting relationships are those that come from old friendships. Familiarity breeds affection, and affection breeds love.